- Love and connection are free and abundant in my world and my life.
- I am love.
- Love comes to me as I open myself to receive it.
- I am capable of connecting with others in loving, authentic and sustainable ways.
- I have needs and am worthy of having them met.
- The Universe desires that my needs be met with luscious abundance.
- I am good enough.
- I release the blocks to true and deep fulfillment.
- I know it is mine to be fulfilled in this lifetime.
- I am attracted to people who are available to share deeply and powerfully.
- I cherish myself.
- I open myself to give and receive love from others.
- I belong here.
- I am enough, no matter what I do.
- I am lovable.
- I am good enough, regardless of what I say or do.
- I am willing to engage as long as joy and playfulness show up.
- I feel successful and interesting and accomplished.
- My partner is patient, and willing to wait for me to express myself.
- We share important ideas and open up streams of thought and discussion that are important and interesting.
- I am enough. I am intelligent.
- I have interests and passions and am capable of sharing in profound and joyful ways with grace and ease.
- I am capable of remembering who I am in relationship with my partner.
- I choose to stay out of old patterns of relating, to find ways to tap in and know what I want and need from moment to moment.
- My desire for physical affection and sexual expansion are normal and healthy.
- I can manage my sexuality in conscious, caring, and healthy ways.
- I open myself to the excitement of a new relationship with an equal — an authentic person who is in many ways similar to me in temperament, personal power, values, interests and passions. Compatible.
- I now choose joy, playfulness.
- I choose a partner who does meaningful work and is awesome at what he/she does.
- I choose someone who is sexually adept, intuitive, and deep.
- I choose to remain attuned to my authentic self in our relating.
- Profound healing takes place in our relating.
- I choose a person who pushes me to a higher standard, but balances the pushing with love, joy, and acceptance.
- I choose a partner who shows affection openly, and in many ways.
- He/She has many qualities and gifts that I want to absorb.
- I will continue to give as long as there is joy, and what I am giving is being received.
- I will know immediately when/if what I am giving is not being received, I will switch gears and give in another way, or know that giving is no longer appropriate.
- We have passionate, mutual discussions that enrich us both.
- I remain connected to my unique self, my power, my knowing.
- I maintain connection with the knowledge that I have open access to authentic new ways of being and responding.
- I am grounded and aware of my feelings, moment by moment.
- I now choose delicious intimacy, intellectual sharing, spiritually stimulating companionship, a partner that I admire and respect.
- I trust the Universe and my own good will sufficiently that I will know immediately if I get off track from this goal.
- Now, I will settle for no less.
- I am enough, whether or not I am enough for you and you for me.
- I choose a partner who is unambiguously attractive and available.
- I recognize a gentle ebb and flow in our relating such that I have ease in accessing my self as appropriate.
- I honor my Self.
- I choose a partner who is lovely, eloquent, expresses affection for himself or herself that is pleasing to me as well.
- I choose to express affection to myself.
- I choose a partner who is available for relating at all levels.
- I choose a partner who is capable of true intimacy, and helps me meet him/her there.
- I choose a partner who is willing to do his/her work.
- I choose a partner who claims and shapes his/her own life based on his/her most important values.
- I choose a partner with which I feel at ease.
- Our interests overlap enough that we communicate easily, sometimes playfully, sometimes with seriousness and depth, but without a lot of work and misunderstanding.
- I communicate with grace and ease, confidence, intelligence.
- I feel that what I know is valued, my perspective matters.
- In our relating, I feel valued and cherished.
- My partner shares his/her developing ideas with me.
- My partner and I continue to learn and grow; are open to continuous growth.
- Our relationship is deep and real enough that it allows for intimacy and exploration outward.
- I am thankful for the relationships I have with the men I will clearly not pursue as partners. In these relationships I meet my need for communicating with grace and ease, confidence, intelligence, celebrating the universal masculine.
- I now choose a partner who is clearly interested in my process, and has insights into what’s going on for me, and meaningful assessments that he/she picks up on intuitively that are right on, and amazingly useful and valuable to me.
- It feels good to have him/her mirror me in this way. I feel validated, valued.
- He/She feels safe with me, and open and vulnerable. He/She opens up his/her heart to me, and values what I have in terms of observations.
- He/She often can read more than I can put into words.
- Simpatico.
- I am a being with sexual needs.
- The flow of sexual energy is clearly there, sustainable.
- I choose physical affection and deep emotional connection.
- I value his/her perspective, and he/she values mine.
- Nurture and support come from both directions.
- I love being in the physical proximity of his/her body, enjoy his/her touch.
- We have fun. We do not feel the need to edit our thoughts.
- I can be myself, explore, risk.
- I learn so much from him/her.
- What we share has a lasting impact.
