Comments for Tonirahman's Blog http://tonirahman.com Traveling Healer Tue, 07 Feb 2012 21:07:30 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ Comment on Counter-Dependency by tonirahman http://tonirahman.com/what-im-reading/counter-dependency/#comment-600 Tue, 07 Feb 2012 21:07:30 +0000 http://tonirahman.com/#comment-600 Great to hear from you Joy. Keep reading. You will find what you are looking for! Good luck to you.

Toni

]]> Comment on Counter-Dependency by JOY http://tonirahman.com/what-im-reading/counter-dependency/#comment-598 Tue, 07 Feb 2012 03:50:18 +0000 http://tonirahman.com/#comment-598 Amazing I appreciate the effort of the author especially considering I need this information to better understand myself and heal this complex defence mechanism. Thank you

]]> Comment on Written Works by tracybarnett http://tonirahman.com/written-works/#comment-552 Mon, 02 Jan 2012 14:19:57 +0000 http://tonirahman.com/written-works/#comment-552 A privileged glimpse into another world… With this book, Toni Rahman offers a sometimes painful, sometimes joyous, always honest glimpse into a culture that’s barely on the radar screen of most Americans. At the same time, her journey reveals a deeply human soul in the process of self-discovery against the backdrop of this culture.
Filled with vivid imagery, an intricate plot and characters that stay with you long after you’ve put it down, this book is a real page-turner that you won’t want to stop reading till the very end.

]]> Comment on Who’s Controlling You? by Who’s Controlling You? | Tonirahman's Blog http://tonirahman.com/what-im-reading/whos-controlling-you/#comment-482 Thu, 17 Nov 2011 18:43:51 +0000 http://tonirahman.com/?page_id=309#comment-482 [...] 1 – BoundariesWhat I’m ReadingWho’s Controlling You?Written Works ← Who’s Controlling You & Who Are You Controlling? [...]

]]> Comment on About by tonirahman http://tonirahman.com/about/#comment-481 Thu, 17 Nov 2011 18:29:39 +0000 #comment-481 Marilyn, keep reading. You will find what you need!

]]> Comment on About by Marilynn http://tonirahman.com/about/#comment-479 Wed, 16 Nov 2011 02:20:50 +0000 #comment-479 I am quite impressed by your site and the information within. Though I have only perused through, a brief surface scan of titles, outline, key words — I believe answers lie within. Perhaps and hopefully the answers to the questions that ramble and for brief moments consume me. Much of which I have experienced myself, studied in college and taught in school to students. Yet, I still need to seek knowledge and reassurances to know that it is ‘okay’ to be me and I am limited in what I can do for grown children and pray for the best as they live for their own lives. I look forward to reading in depth the information provided on your site. Thank you.

]]> Comment on Current Affirmations by tonirahman http://tonirahman.com/transform-your-life-with-affirmations/affirmations/#comment-463 Tue, 01 Nov 2011 01:10:43 +0000 http://tonirahman.com/#comment-463 Wendy, it’s great to hear from you. Be gentle with yourself. Your life starts today. Much love, Toni

]]> Comment on Current Affirmations by Wendy http://tonirahman.com/transform-your-life-with-affirmations/affirmations/#comment-462 Mon, 31 Oct 2011 20:55:25 +0000 http://tonirahman.com/#comment-462 Thank you for this amazing gift. I ‘m trying to make sense of fourty odd years including lots of dysfunction mainly on my part, yet there has been some “abuses”. Feeling near the end of my rope has led me here and there where I often seem to end up on the guilty one who should expect little. I’m not even suppose to be searching for these answers it seems. But your website is such a gift, so I say, Thank You very much.

]]> Comment on The Art Department by Instinct Injury and How it Happens « Tonirahman's Blog http://tonirahman.com/what-im-reading/the-art-department/#comment-215 Tue, 05 Apr 2011 02:33:01 +0000 http://tonirahman.com/?page_id=251#comment-215 [...] Instinct Injury and How it Happens How does a person become instinct injured, and lack the ability to set and communicate clear boundaries?  Here are some excerpts from Clinton S. Clark © 1993 (in italics) that I find extremely helpful in setting the groundwork for implementing this new skill set.  Setting boundaries is a skill that we did not learn as children.  And there is a good reason this is so.  While reading the following, keep in mind that we use the term “addiction” and “codependent” very loosely, covering a wide range of behaviors, and not from a position of judgment, but rather as a scientist would examine a new species of tropical plant.  With a little bit of distance (objectivity) you stand to gain a new understanding of the family disease of addiction, and begin to understand how its poison has been passed undetected from one generation to another.  The good news is that we can learn to recognize it, understand how it works, and make subtle changes in our own behavior and attitudes to stop the transmission and the pain.  But like anything else, this is a process.  One cannot expect to change a lifetime of beliefs and habits overnight.  So please be gentle.  Find more Clinton S. Clark at The Art Department. [...]

]]> Comment on The Art Department by When you find yourself the object of someone else’s addition « Tonirahman's Blog http://tonirahman.com/what-im-reading/the-art-department/#comment-214 Tue, 05 Apr 2011 02:28:29 +0000 http://tonirahman.com/?page_id=251#comment-214 [...] Read more Clinton S. Clark at The Art Department [...]

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